Friday, November 2, 2012
Funny phone call
Through the highschool years, I have so many silly friends who created the stupid jokes and made fun of each other almost everyday. Worst, when I was 17, we were dormates. Life was good back then, we enjoyed every second of it.
Last night, I called one of my silly friend, Shikin Ramli. We lost contact and I just got her number.
Ayya : Hello, boleh saya bercakap dengan Cik Norashikin Ramli?
Shikin : Ya saya.
Ayya : Saya dari Maybank, Cik Norashikin ada membuat pengeluaran duit sebanyak 3 ribu bulan ni, betul?
Shikin : Eh, takde lah.
Ayya : Tapi dalam rekod kami, Cik Shikin dah keluarkan duit ni.
Shikin : Tapi saya takde maybank pun?
Ayya : HAHAHAHHA!
Shikin : Eh sape ni?
Ayya : Cuba teka?
Shikin : Sape ye?
Ayya : Ni baby lah, orang paling cantik kat sekolah dulu.
Shikin : Ayya?
Ayya : Hahahah betul! Tak sangka kau rasa camtu kat aku, shikin.
Shikin : Eh takde lah, sebab yang perasan-perasan ni kau je.
(-_-) *sigh.
Did I tell you, 4 tahun tak jumpa, and first time we met, I was so excited to see her, I yelled her name, "Shikiinnnnnn!!"
Her first reaction was, " Eh apsal kau putih sangat ni? kau duk oversea eh?"
(-_-) why cant you be excited like i did?
That is shikin ramli, my silly friend.
Looking forward to meet her this weekend. I will expose her photo here. Jeng jeng
xoxo!
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Make Up artis di Kelantan
To the date, I still tak dapat cari make up artist kat kelantan for my wedding. Hope balik november nanti, dapat laa cari. Tak sempat langsung nak survey. and kalau boleh memang nak Amy Touch.
Tapi price yang diberikan memang tak mampu untuk ku menanggungnya.
For solemnization and reception, around rm1500. yes, only for the make up.
Maybe orang cakap, okay lah tu. tapi i tak sanggup nak spend that much for make up.
Dah macam harga baju dah... wuwuwuuuu
and if siapa-siapa nak recommend their make up artist. feel free to do so.
need help!
xoxo :)
Monday, October 22, 2012
Review Engagement : Hantaran from both sides.
| Sirih Junjung |
| Samping songket |
Ni pula hantaran cincin tapi cincin nya dah berada di jari tuan punya. hehe
Kain baju melayu for akad nikah
Ni pula kain batik crepe yang i beli kat pasar siti khadijah, sebenarnya dah taknak warna purple sebab banyak dah baju color purple tapi my mum insisted that we need to follow color theme. layan je leww.
Now tengah mencari idea for hantaran masa nikah pula. Bride to be, or used to be bride, feel free to share ideas ye :)
Siapa yang berminat untuk mendapat kan khidmat mereka, boleh lah terjah ke blog Rukhsana Ridwan & Hikayat Cinta :)
Any questions can email to me : ayyahenrietta@gmail.com
xoxo!
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Review Engagement : Mini Pelamin
Another problem is, majlis i kat Kelantan. I kena cari vendor yang boleh provide bunga. sebab Rukhsana team based kat Bangi so dorang akan bawak barang je datang sini and bunga ambil kat kelantan. Tak banyak florist yang buka masa raya. kalau buka pon, harga bunga diorang sangat-sangat mahal and I try cari kedai kat cameron highlands yang boleh pos bunga ke Kelantan. tapi sebab musim raya, dorang tutup kedai seminggu.
So I inform team Rukhsana maybe kena pakai artificial flowers je kot.. sedih :(
One week later, owner Rukhsana team called and said, takpe dorang akan bawak bunga tu from kl, tapi dorang gerak malam from kl sebab nak bagi bunga stay fresh and sampai kelantan awal pagi, same day with my majlis. Majlis i start malam. I cam risau jugak. Risky kan? Camne kalau takde bunga?
Tapi I doa je laa banyak-banyak. Rukhsana Team arrived at kelantan dalam pukul 4 pagi and pukul 10 pagi diorang dah start working on my pelamin and hantaran =)
Sunday, October 14, 2012
You are beautiful
Salam all,
Dah lama sebenarnya nak tulis post ni tapi tertahan-tahan sebab not in mood so malas nak susun ayat.
I banyak nampak gambar kat facebook and twitter, perempuan kurus ambil gambar and tulis caption 'dah gemuk'. some people would said, 'mengada. Nak orang puji dia lah tu. Nak orang cakap, taklaa kau kurus laa.
I sebenarnya on both sides. Mungkin perempuan kurus tu nak feel confident. Nak rasa dia cantik. Mungkin dia low self esteem. Mungkin takde orang puji dia cantik. Tapi, orang-orang yang menyampah dengan dia tu, ada btol nya jugak. Sbb tak semua orang boleh terima bila kita mengada-ngada seeking attention. And x semua orang boleh berfikiran positif all time. Same goes to me.
Perempuan biasa nya memang nak rasa dia cantik. Tak semestinya cantik gila. Tapi deep inside nak rasa dia cantik. Nak rasa confident. Sebab tu sensitif bila orang lelaki ketawakan kalau muka licin naik jerawat, bila pakai baju nampak bentuk badan dikatakan macam nangka busuk and ada saja yang x kena. Lepas tu, cakap perempuan complicated. Kalau tipu..marah. Kalau cakap yang betul..kecil hati pula.
Guys, sebenarnya we want u all to be honest with us..in a soft and nice way. If we put on weights, just simply tegor ' nak cakap ni tapi jangan terasa hati. kau macam makin tembam' . If muka kitorang banyak naik jerawat. ' Babe, aku cakap something boleh? Kau allergic eh? Sbb makin teruk jerawat kau. Dulu ok je. X try facial?'
Motif nya nak suruh diet and suruh pergi facial. Tapi nampak tak cara cakap dia? dari tegor, 'wehhh apsal teruk sangat muka kau ni?? g laa facial weh'
Nampak beza dia?
Ada caranya nak bercakap dengan perempuan. Memang betul apa dicakap tapi cara penyampaian tu. And perempuan ni bukan laa nak kena dipuji hari-hari, tapi dia just nak dipuji orang-orang tersayang dia saja. Dalam islam kan isteri kena melaram for suami. Tapi kalau isteri dah melaram and suami buat derk aje. Sebab tu isteri seek attention from sources lain.
Niatnya to feel confident and takmau low self esteem. And semua orang cantik in their own way. Tapi i cant deny ada yang muka cantik perangai buruk. And perangai cantik muka buruk. Ade gak yang luar dalam dua2 pon buruk and luar dalam dua2 cantik.
Pepandai lah korang bezakan.
Tapi for husband, boyfriends and lelaki out there, its important to make your loved ones feel they are beautiful. Yes, perempuan is complicated. We are full of emotions. Only real men knw how to deal with it :)
and to the ladies, dont worry. Jage penampilan and biasanya if muka biasa-biasa je tapi perangai kita superb, orang akan suka dengan kita. Bila orang suka, orang akan start rasa kita cantik and makin sedap dipandang. Even bukan semua orang pun, im sure dalam ramai-ramai mesti ada.. Walaupun seorang. Aminnnn.
xoxo
Thursday, October 11, 2012
The Kronik Couple
H and I and are miles apart from each other. We only get to meet during weekends twice per month.
Most days, we connected through whatssap, phone calls and did not have many chances to bergayut like we used to do during college time. His office hour ended 6pm, and I have tuition at nights.
During weekends, we always plan to talk about our wedding preparations during lunch or dinner time. Sit at the nice cafe and discuss over coffee. sounds perfect!
But normally, we only sit, enjoy our food, poke each other, criticize the food, take photos of them and planning what desserts to order next, pffttt.
Last weekend, we were stucked in a traffic jam and i was playing with my phone ( which i did most of the time) and H asked about our hantarans. Is it just 7 hantaran or 9?
So I note down, 1st hantaran is the ring, 2nd is... 3rd ... then turned out it is 9! and on august we planned to buy one by one, each month. supposed to start on september but..... erm, there is no action taken.
Then, we talked about what we should wear on the wedding day. I have my own tailor and H said, "what about me?" oh ya, u need to look good too. you are the groom . Next on the list is to find bridal boutique and rent suits or whatsoever to make my man looks handsome.
and I remember something, if we want to get married, we have all to fill some forms right? then it strucked me..
ALAMAK! Kursus kawin!! I totally forgot about it..
You see, we are too relax and laid back. we are still enjoying our time and didnt realized we have a wedding coming soon. Our own.
I went home and searched for the wedding checklist ( my cousin gave me 6 months ago) .
Realized we still have a lot of things to do. guest list, wedding invitation, canopy.. etc
Oh my.
One step at a time, must go kursus kahwin first.
xoxo!




