The Kronik Couple

Salam all,

H and I and are miles apart from each other. We only get to meet during weekends twice per month.
Most days, we connected through whatssap, phone calls and did not have many chances to bergayut like we used to do during college time. His office hour ended 6pm, and I have tuition at nights.

During weekends, we always plan to talk about our wedding preparations during lunch or dinner time. Sit at the nice cafe and discuss over coffee. sounds perfect!

But normally, we only sit, enjoy our food, poke each other, criticize the food, take photos of them and planning what desserts to order next, pffttt.

Last weekend, we were stucked in a traffic jam and i was playing with my phone ( which i did most of the time) and H asked about our hantarans. Is it just 7 hantaran or 9?
So I note down, 1st hantaran is the ring, 2nd is... 3rd ... then turned out it is 9! and on august we planned to buy one by one, each month. supposed to start on september but..... erm, there is no action taken.

Then, we talked about what we should wear on the wedding day. I have my own tailor and H said, "what about me?" oh ya, u need to look good too. you are the groom . Next on the list is to find bridal boutique and rent suits or whatsoever to make my man looks handsome.

and I remember something, if we want to get married, we have all to fill some forms right?  then it strucked me..
ALAMAK! Kursus kawin!! I totally forgot about it..

You see, we are too relax and laid back. we are still enjoying our time and didnt realized we have a wedding coming soon. Our own.

I went home and searched for the wedding checklist ( my cousin gave me 6 months ago) .
Realized we still have a lot of things to do. guest list, wedding invitation, canopy.. etc

Oh my.

One step at a time, must go kursus kahwin first.

xoxo!

Zaity is getting married!

Salam,

22nd September 2012, Zaity sudah selamat menjadi isteri orang and of course i want to be there for her solemnization and reception. Mana boleh miss, she is my bestfriend from highschool. Dulu almost every night I tidur at her dorm. Sebenarnya I dorm lain tapi i merempat di dorm Zaity and Khazliqah. Enjoyed sleeping in between them, i rarely stay in my own dorm. syok tau malam-malam Khazliqah tepuk-tepuk peha suruh tidur :)

I love her wedding dress, this dress kitorang beli kat Jakarta masa june trip aritu. Dress ni quite plain tapi she sent to the tailor, add beading and pop up flowers. The result? Lawa sangat :)

Pretty kan?

Tak boleh tahan sedih, see my face? sob sob

Sedih sangat masa akad nikah, lagi-lagi bila habis lafaz je, she whispered to me, " Weh, aku dah jadi bini orang dah.."

" Jangan cakap camtu boleh tak??! "

23rd September, Reception di Dewan Pavillion, Seremban.

On our way to the hall

Zaity asked me to be her bridemaid, one year earlier.masa my birthday pula tu. anything for the bridezilla.

And i would like to share funny story, masa bersiap for her reception. Sangat kelakar bila ramai terkejut, why i dressed up too? why i pun macam mak datin ni?

I pun macam terkejut, bukan bridemaid kena begitu kan?

Make up artist Zaity explained, orang kelantan memang macam tu. suka melaram. sebab dia pun asal kelantan juga.

I pun tak perasan, sebab in my family, if ada wedding, memang kitorang akan ada theme color for the family and semua akan beli baju baru and dressed up lawa-lawa. kalau pengantin start make up pukul 8 pagi, 8 pagi juga laa kami start make up. 

Different tradition, huh?

Lovely couple.

Stf girls if jumpa tak sah kalau tak kepochi, selalu buat onar di majlis orang.

Zaity, semoga berbahagia di alam perkahwinan ya. Doa yang baik-baik saja untuk kau and u know i love you so much!

Kenapa lah bridemaid tak boleh ikut pergi Krabi :P

xoxo

The bride & her bridemaid

Salam all,

Last saturday, my bestfriend from highschool getting hitched! i am so happy for her and sad a bit at the same time. sob sob because she is now one step ahead in her life.

On our way to Dewan Pavillion, Seremban

Two days after she got married, I called her and bergossip. then i asked her,

 Ayya : Ko kat mana ni?

Zaity : kat johor.

Ayya : Apsal ko kat johor?

Zaity : Aku nak pergi mini honeymoon kat Singapore.

Ayya : Ohhh yela, ko dah kawin -_-

I forgot she is now a wife. HAHA sorry babe, kacau u on your honeymoon.

so i hang up and called the other bestfriend, Dynat. hehehe

I am so happy for all of my friends and at the same time feeling sad because i know we'll never be the same anymore.

life goes on, right?

xoxo!